Happy Valentine's Day!!

May your day be filled with warmth and love

Let Chocolates fill your tummy

Have roses all around your place

and let your Spanker be no dummy

For he should already know on this day

While others are gathering hugs and kisses

Secretly a spanking is what YOU really desire

with the expertise he dishes

So Todd and I both wish for you

Happy Valentine's as we said

but most of all, we hope you find

your bottom sore and RED ;)

I want a Pizza!

I've been on a no fast food, no restaurants, basically just home cooking diet for 4 weeks now and I miss PIZZA!!!!!!!!!!! Pizza has long been my favorite easy and cheap food to eat and it was a pretty regular part of our meal plan for a long time, so it's been very hard to go without it. A little birdie said we might have a treat over Superbowl and have a veggie pizza, I have my fingers and toes crossed.. I've done pretty well with my diet and I've written in my diet journal every single day, so I think a treat would be well deserved :)

***What Does Spanking Mean To You?***

"What does Spanking mean to you?"

Courtney:  Well it means a lot of stuff. It provides so many different things for us. It can be just fun, stress relief, punishment, anything. For us, it always brings us closer to each other and reminds both of us of our commitment to one another.

Dixie:  

Spanking has been pushed farther and farther back when it comes to things. Just in general, I don't take time to play spanking or bdsm much.  We are active socially in events, but not when it comes to playtime I go at least 2 months between any type of spanking 

activity. I

t's just been one of those years where I have so much on my mind I don't give spanking much time.

Katia:  Spanking means several things to me.  The pleasure and excitement  of GG spankings. Always guaranteed to bring a smile to my face. It also is a release for me in those times I am stressed. The pain I feel in my backside, at times, will release the pain I am feeling emotionally. Then there is the discipline side of a spanking. Even though it is unpleasant, it brings accountability, helps with guilt for things you feel you have done wrong. It makes me feel cared for, that someone else cares enough for me that they too will help you tow the line. 

It is the one certainty in my life that I can count on, without it, I would be lost. It's funny how when you are wired- life doesn't seem natural without it.

Isabella:  What does spanking mean to me? That has changed for me over the past 2 years. It started out as a curiosity concerning discipline. Well that worked well for me,  with time that has changed quite a bit. Now it is more about the stress relief that the spanking brings and the relationships that I have developed through spanking.

Autumn:  Spanking is part of me. I don't understand why, don't know where the need comes from, but it is a deeply rooted part of who I am. My desire for spanking came long before my desire for sex ever developed. The desire is something I pushed away as dirty or evil for a VERY long time before finally exploring it and seeing what it was that I had always longed for. 

I love spanking. For me it is many things. 

It is part of my sexuality. While my first spanking was not sexual or erotic in nature, it opened up a lot of doors for me as far as enjoying my sexuality and embracing the sexual part of myself. 

Spanking in a disciplinary context for me is VERY different. In general knowing that I am accountable to two people who won't hesitate to paddle me and when I need it, when I break the agreement/rules we've agreed on makes me feel safe in a way that is hard to explain.  Within a disciplinary context spanking actually helps me make far more responsible decisions and take full responsibility for decisions both good and bad that I make. 

Spanking can also be very fun for me and not sexual. 

I have met with one spanker in particular and it was just a lot of fun for both of us. It wasn't sexual, but we role played and just had a lot of fun.

After having an interest in spanking for my whole life and finally deciding to throw off society's mores and just go for it, I have become bolder in other parts of my life. 

***We'd love to hear your thoughts too, so please comment or email me at SpankableSuzy@yahoo.com***

Happy New Year!!

May the New Year of 2012 bring you Happiness and Prosperity each and every day

Allow the Love and Joyous moments to surround you while you interact and play

Progress towards your new Achievements, your Goals, your Hopes, your Dreams

Express your times of excitement and pleasure with lots of giggles, laughs and screams 

Don't ever make your expectations too big nor have your wishes be too small

And make sure to show all your friends and family how much you care for them all!!

I Wish You All A Very Happy New Year!

What do YOU want for Christmas?

Every year this time comes around and whether you are into store bought presents, home made presents, presents from the heart, or just cards to let your friends and loved ones know you are thinking about them, you are sure to have gotten asked this age old question, 

What do YOU want for Christmas?

So, what is on your wish list this year?